Independent Visitors
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Some children in foster care or in residential homes have little contact with parents or family. It is vital that they can meet regularly with someone who is independent of Children and Young People's Services and who is not already involved in their care.
This has to be someone they can trust and confide in and regard as their friend. Children get a lot out of knowing that visitors come to see them – not because they are paid to or because they have to – but because they want to.
Visits or outings are usually once or twice a month arranged at times to suit the carer and the young person. They last for just an hour or two. Visits are informal and conversations can range freely around all the things that are important to the young person.
Visitors are not expected to act as counsellors, but if a young person confides in them, they can advise where to find help or how to complain about any aspect of the care they receive.
They can also act as an advocate. The relationship may continue for years – even after the young person has left care.
Visitors can be women and men from all cultures and backgrounds. They can be young enough to be seen as older sisters and brothers – or old enough to be thought of as aunts, uncles or grandparents.
You don’t need special qualifications to become a visitor. But you do have to be a good listener and to feel confident and at ease with young people. You will also need to be committed enough to stick it out for as long as the young person needs you.
Generally the scheme suits people who have a few hours to spare each month and who enjoy spending time with young people. All expenses to do with visiting are paid. Training and support are provided.
Want to know more?
If you would like to know more about becoming an Independent Visitor, then please contact us.